Power Tumbling

Inspired by John Howards “Don’ts for Gymnasts’ Parents”, modified to my own beliefs. Some “Don’ts” have been removed, not because they are wrong but, because they can be interpeted in different ways. The orignal list can be seen here. 

1. Don’t compare your gymnast’s progress with that of other gymnasts.
2. Don’t become overly ego-involved with your gymnast’s success or lack of it.
3. Don’t take judge’s scores too seriously, especially at the lower levels.
4. Don’t forget the need for fun in gymnastics. (MODIFIED: the flip side is true, Don’t forget the hard work needed to become a perficient gymnast.)
5. Don’t stand for unacceptable behavior from your gymnast during practice or competitions.
6. Don’t participate in gossip about anyone in the gymnastics community.
7. Don’t interfere with coaches and their coaching duties during practice or competitions.
8. Don’t pressure your gymnast regarding skills or competition.
9. Don’t set unrealistic goals for your gymnast. (MODIFIED: goals should be set by the coach)
10. Don’t predicate your love or attention on your gymnast’s competitive success.
11. Don’t base your own ego or self-esteem on the success of your gymnast’s progress or competitive success.
12. Don’t undercut your gymnast’s confidence in their coaches or coaching.
13. Don’t show any negative emotions while watching your gymnast practice or compete.
14. Don’t do or say anything to make your child feel guilty for the time and money you are spending on their gymnastics or any sacrifices you feel you are making for them to particpate in the sport.
15. Don’t badmouth your gymnast’s coaches, your gym or other gymnasts in front of your gymnast.
16. Don’t attempt to coach your gymnast yourself.
17. Don’t alienate your gymnast’s coaches.
18. Don’t do anything to make anemies with other gymnast’s parents.
19. Don’t expect anything more from your gymnast except their best effort.